I don't think they are concerned because they don't think that that person that asked will be able to find out more.
I think Amy regretted it when she found out that he did that to other girls as well.
And her consequences were that fact that when he does get out of prison he knows where she lives and all about her. He could do this to her again.
If a friend told me they were gonna meet someone in person that they met online i would tell them not to and list all the reasons why.
